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Well, it's happened again. [May. 31st, 2002|04:09 pm]
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An ex-colleague (and now ex-friend) is getting married, and we had a long conversation about it and the plans and such like. Caroline and I, and he and his fiance, had made plans to meet up more often. We'd really bonded when they came to our wedding, and it was just great.

Now, I've learned that his stag night is in 2 weeks time, it's in Amsterdam, and I'm not supposed to know about it.

I'm not too angry about it, I just feel betrayed.

But, I'm cutting my losses on this one... after all, he's arranged loads of past social events with other colleagues and I've not been invited to any of them... so there can't have been much of a friendship there in the first place.

I have a small number of true friends, and I thought he was one of them... that's what hurts the most.

However, I do know who my true friends are, and hopefully they do too. If they don't... well, they should.

That is all.
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[User Picture]From: stephaniewalker
2002-05-31 08:14 am (UTC)
That's really horrible ;(
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[User Picture]From: thelovebug
2002-05-31 08:24 am (UTC)
Indeed.
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[User Picture]From: moosical
2002-05-31 08:28 am (UTC)
Nods..

If you'd have heard them at the wedding.. he was all "oh you're both great" we really oughta keep in touch.. you'll have to come to our wedding etc etc.

I even gave his other half my bouquet and both of them a bottle of champagne..

I just think this is quite sad - and pretty two faced ;(

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[User Picture]From: stephaniewalker
2002-05-31 08:36 am (UTC)
erk ;(

I dont understand how people can be so shallow, and say one thing one time, and totally change it later on.
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[User Picture]From: moosical
2002-05-31 08:42 am (UTC)
Well sod'em if they can't be genuine then they aren't worth listening to or thinking about..

*sighs*
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[User Picture]From: moosical
2002-05-31 08:16 am (UTC)
::hugs::

I kinda feel betrayed about this too - After all that talk at the wedding..

well S**'em

He's not worth it - he doesn't know what he is missing!

I for one love you to bits and as far as I'm concerned he's not worth worrying about cos he's shown his true colours!

Moo
=x=
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[User Picture]From: thelovebug
2002-05-31 08:23 am (UTC)
Aye.
*nod*

Schmurgen.
*hug*
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[User Picture]From: julie_obrien
2002-05-31 08:20 am (UTC)
Erk. :-/
There's only so much rejection you can take, isn't there?
Well I for one would really love to meet you and Moo, I'm sure it'd be a sream. :D
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[User Picture]From: thelovebug
2002-05-31 08:23 am (UTC)
Well, I'm sure that we can arrange something for when Caroline and I are up north! :-)
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[User Picture]From: julie_obrien
2002-05-31 08:24 am (UTC)
Yes, I hope you do!! :D
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[User Picture]From: moosical
2002-05-31 08:47 am (UTC)
you try stopping us! ;P
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[User Picture]From: julie_obrien
2002-05-31 08:50 am (UTC)

Re:

Woohoo! :D
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[User Picture]From: lothie
2002-05-31 08:30 am (UTC)
Why people pull this crap is beyond me. *hugs*
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[User Picture]From: thelovebug
2002-05-31 08:32 am (UTC)
I don't know.
*hug*
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[User Picture]From: novemberbug
2002-05-31 10:48 am (UTC)
It's definitely his loss and not yours. The only shame here is that he doesn't realise what a great friend and all round wonderful person he's missing out on.

*HUGS*
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[User Picture]From: thelovebug
2002-05-31 12:10 pm (UTC)
Thank you hon! :-)
*hug*
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[User Picture]From: crazybee
2002-05-31 12:51 pm (UTC)
been there before m8 thinking I was good friends with some one and then have them screw me over.

oh well hope I'm counted as a friend :)
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